Sunday, August 11, 2013

dont let people ruin your karmic chi...seriously: karmic chi pt i

you are going to think this is total b.s.  *but*...you must learn how to protect your karmic chi & not let people who are energy vampires take your energy.  how do you do this?  i will give you a few tips:

  • dont engage with negative people.  being around &/or engaging with negative people will only give you negative vibes.  did you know its actually been scientifically proven that negative energy kills living cells?  therefore, negative people are literally killing you...cell by cell by cell by cell by cell.  dont be that guy.  you are going to be so much better off if you do not let other peoples energy control your karmic chi force field.  so...again, dont be around those who are, for whatever reasons, either overtly or covertly negative.
  • be careful who you you allow into your inner circle.  hey, this is the internet.  you dont *know* these people!!!  its always good to be on your guard. et tu, Brutus, et tu indeed.
  • cut ties with toxic friends.  drama, drama, and mo' drama is only going to absolutely ruin your life.  you dont need it...or them...so skate.  and dont look back, either.
  • learn how to relax.  the mind free of worry is a blessed state.  why do you think buddhist monks spend their entire lives devoted to meditation & prayer living up in the mountains in a secluded monastery in the middle of beautiful nature?  because they decided they *didnt* want to be at that 3pm app dev meeting where you know your boss is going to be going on and on forever for hours about nothing in particular...then turn to you and ask...but i dont know, what is *your* opinion?  at which point you have to pretend like you actually care.  
  • do something, & love doing it.  so many people, i swear to god, just have a penchant for the sadomasochistic b.s. *need* for having and/or maintaining a job they absolutely hate.  i for one will never understand this.  if you hate your job so much...why do it?  life is way too short to just be stuck on paying some bills till you die.  yes pay the bills, but find a way to let your passion roam free in terms of doing what you *really* want to do for a job.  you cannot always please other people.  will your mom be happy youre a yoga teacher making 8 dollars an hour versus a $56K computer programmer?  perhaps not, but then again, you have to live with yourself for the rest of *your* natural life...not your parents or anyone else.  so you have to make the choices that make *you* happy personally.  
i hope these tips give you some sense of direction.  the bottom line is, dont let people ruin your karmic chi.  i have a lot more to say on this topic, but this will suffice for now dear readers.  i want you to be able to learn from what i have found to be true & hopefully it will help you somehow, even if its in a small way.  as the buddhist blessing says, "by the power of every moment of your goodness may your heart's wishes be soon fulfilled."  wishing you be blessed, no stress, & lots of happiness...love.  

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