dont live your life without love: experiments in reality

some people exist, but they never really live.  life is something you must experience...and do so with a dogged vengeance, a determination to achieve your dreams relentlessly without overthinking everything.  but at the same time, you need to put your mind into overdrive envisioning your plans.  a lot of people dont ever really self-actualize.  they sit in a cubicle their whole lives and play it safe...measuring themselves and their self worth by how high their salary is, how big their car is, what kind of house they own, what kind of neighborhood they live in, how many kids they have, who they are with, what their favorite hobbies are, or where they went to school.  all of these things can be positive...but that kind of thing is not the right focus in life.  i would rather be poor & have my love & happiness with my special someone a million times over and against being some miserable rich person with no concept of what it means to be in a real & loving relationship that will stand the test of time.  perhaps that is a revolutionary concept.  if so, does that make me revolutionary?  in this day and age...yes.  so many people get stuck on the absolute wrong things and focus on their careers, jobs, kids, & civic minded commitments when they really lack love & a lasting love relationship.  people fill their lives with everything else besides love because that is the void that is inside their hearts & its like a black hole that will never be filled...instead all these other activities will consume their every thought & breath, having wanton disregard for what really matters in this life, & what will last forever, even after death...love.  so...make sure you put a priority on love in your life, because in the end, love is the only thing that lasts.  why because everything else eventually turns to dust.